Women are crazy

Men often say “women are crazy!” And as much I’ve said, “Shut up, that’s not true,” I thought about, and women are crazy. Most of us are emotional cannons and others are just a hot mess. Since a lot of what we do is emotionally charge, our reactions are often irrational and extreme. I think that women get hurt and don’t know what to do with those emotions, so they get kind of stalkerish, or vindictive. Since women are so sensitive and in their emotional whirlwind, they try to find a way to make themselves feel better. Because these things are done during emotional delirium they usually come out as crazy, but they actually have a logically driven explanation.

Like the girl that walks by your house, it’s crazy, but she just wants to feel close to you.

The girl that calls you several times? She just wants an explanation.

Or the girl that calls you horrible names, and is yelling at you like she’s possessed by a demon? What can I say? She’s angry.

So, yeh, women are crazy, but it’s usually because a guy did something to her. If men thought before they acted women would be extremely same, but when someone forgets your birthday, cheats on you, or disrespects you, are you suppose to be all smiles? I think not.

 

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Internet Drama

The internet is still a very mysterious place. We don’t know who’s on there and what they are capable of doing to our lives. Because of the internet social networking many people that we don’t want can haphazardly come in our lives and mess everything up. That’s what internet drama is about, it’s the most unwanted and unexpected drama. You expect people in your life to give headaches but people that you’ve never met? Give me a break.

 

People on the internet can bring so much grief to your life by inventing rumors, posting negative things about you and seducing your boyfriend/girlfriend. Internet drama is the worst kind because it’s so unexpected and how do you go about handling when someone can easily hide behind a computer screen or do you dismiss it as childish and not worth your time, but what about when internet drama has a serious impact on your life? What if negative images or comments are posted and destroy your reputation? What if your relationship is destroyed because someone unexpected emails your special someone? How do you handle it?

 

I always think that confrontation is the best way to handle something, but how can you confront someone in cyberspace? It’s nearly impossible because, not only can they ignore you, but they might be those pathetic people that enjoy drama, and think that you’re making them “famous” by confronting them.

 

So, what to do?

 

My reasonable, practical, classy self, says walk away. It’s not worth your time. Do damage control and fix the situation yourself or if it’s a relationship situation then good riddance that you got rid such a loser that would let someone on the internet make him/her lose someone as great as you.

 

But then again. . .

 

My devious, jealous self says find the biatch’s info and make her/him pay for it!

 

Fortunately, my practical trumps the devious side because in the end when I imagine myself wasting time to get payback when I can do some many other things with the time that I waste on that person, I feel stupid. Why waste an ounce of my time on someone so miserable and immature that they have time to start drama in my life?! Not worth it!

 

 The answer to internet drama? Turn off your modem and go do something for yourself!

Bitter-Sweet Internet Revenge

Revenge is an intriguing topic. Is it worth it? Should you do it? I say, maybe. It’s definitely bitter-sweet. You get satisfaction but then there are the repercussions. I’ve heard so many stories about internet revenge, and it’s so amusing and I wish I could actually do it, but then I laugh, I’m too afraid of karma.

But I toy with the idea in my mind, what’s so bad about getting even? If someone does something wrong to you, why do you have to stay put and feel like you’re being taken advantage of? Does divine retribution exist? I know I said a couple of days ago, what goes around comes around, but does it? I think about all the bad things that people have done to me, and I really don’t remember getting my payback, but maybe they have, just not the payback that I want! But in my ideal world, I think that we all pay our dues. But while, I can’t necessarily be vengeful, I have enjoyed some pretty entertaining stories.

There is the little incident where a girl played by her bf decided to get revenge not on the boyfriend but the chick. She used our favorite instrument, the internet, and posted a picture and the girl’s cell number on a sex website, saying that the girl did the dirty for $2.

Then, there was the time when a young lady found someone’s hidden treasures on her baby daddy’s cell phone! She managed to send the picture to her email, print the picture, and confront the exhibitionist and the exhibitionist’s mother! Let’s just say that the picture ended up in the mother’s face and the perpetrator getting publicly beat!

While, I stifle a giggle and shake my head at these stories, I’m torn between admiration and horror. How can you do that? Does that really solve the problem or does that just give temporary satisfaction? That really depends on the situation. In situation one, the player never got rid of the side chick, but got rid of the girlfriend and in the second situation, let’s just say she gets away with everything!

People’s personal choices, do make for some intriguing stories. I say revenge is kind sorta a little bit okay, as long as there’s no extensive physical or emotional harm, just a little slap on the hand to make sure that it doesn’t happen again. Revenge might not be for me but for those that decide to press on, just take it easy!

Revenge on the Internet

Haha. The internet has made it way easier to humiliate people but like the guy in the video says online revenge only makes you famous. . .