When we love, it is a unique and priceless item, never to reproduced, impossible to copy. That explosive connection that we have with one individual will most likely never be the same with another person, and that’s scary.
When we breakup, we instantly think, I’m going to be alone for the rest of my life, but let’s make an adjustment to that statement, I’m never going to have that great connection, again. And that’s more likely than the first. We can all find someone to spend the rest of our lives with, someone to love, but can we find that feeling again? Can we find the same connection with another person, and the answer is, no, you don’t. Why not? Because, we’re all individuals and bring different things to the table and create different feelings and connections that will never be the same as the other. We’re like crayons, no two crayons create the same color, but it doesn’t mean that one color is better than the other, they’re just different.
And that’s what happens, that explosive feeling can come in different packages. You might never be able to replicate the feelings that you had with someone, but you never want to copy, because a copy is never as good as the original. You want an original of everything, and that’s what you need to create: original works of love. Never go searching for what you had because if what you had is not what you have, then there’s a reason why it’s in your past tense.