6 Ways to be an Amazing Boyfriend

Men look at women like they are an enigma, but women are not difficult to understand. Women just want honesty and attention. I don’t think that’s so difficult to shell out., but for those that need more guidance, below is a list of what makes an amazing boyfriend.

1.Listen

Women love attention. They like to feel like they are the only ones. Why do you think we spend so much on shoes, clothes, and makeup? We like to be unique and when you focus your attention on us, we’ll forever adore you.

2.Surprise

Women love presents especially unexpected ones. A present can be dinner, jewelry, or her favorite chocolate cake. Just something that she loves or will make her feel special. Surprises mean I’m always thinking of you and we like to be thought of.

3.Dedicate time

Sometimes men get caught up with hanging with the boys, work, or life
and they forget that they have a special someone. That special someone
needs attention too and spending time together fosters the
relationship and deepens the connection. You need to maintain your
score within a relationship as much as on the XBox.

4. Commitment

Don’t play games. If you’re in it, you’re in it, if not then get out.
Don’t play games. If you commit, then commit whole heartedly because
it’s not fair to you nor her to create a faux relationship. Be real
about what you want and if you enter a relationship then make sure you
give your 1000% (yes, 1000%. That’s not a typo)

5. Respect

Treat your woman with decency and kindness. Treat her the way you want
to be treated. Don’t curse, call her names, or leave her stranded.
Treat her with respect and make her feel like that only and most
special woman in your life.

6. Keep your promises

If you say that you’re going to take out the trash then take it out.
If you’re meeting her at 9pm, make sure you’re there. A woman wants to
know that she can count on her man and by NOT keeping your promises
you’re not only less dependable but you’re a liar and basically an
asshole, so don’t say something unless you plan on following through!

If  boyfriends that had these amazing yet simple qualities then the world would be a better place.

What other qualities make an amazing boyfriend?

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3 thoughts on “6 Ways to be an Amazing Boyfriend

  1. I love this! Men think that if they buy us nice things…break our backs in the bedroom every now and then then everything will be alright. (Those things help though lol)

    No but seriously it is the simple things that money can’t buy that mean so much. I can get sex anywhere. I can have any guy buy me things…but there is a rare quality of men out there that are willing to do just the simple things.

  2. The only thing I would disagree with is the surprise part. Why? Some women HATE surprises… take my mother for example. Whenever you surprise her she has a fit, and I know of a few other girls who’d just rather be told about it than have the wool over their eyes. Me, it depends on the surprise. 😉

    1. lol. Well, I don’t mean have a clown jump out! lol. A surprise can be something small or big but it’s more about always thinking about the person, keeping the relationship fresh. A surprise can be making the bed, cooking dinner or casually giving a foot rub, but I’m glad I hit on the nail with the other qualities. To me it’s all about consideration.

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