The second installment of Why Men Don’t Choose “The Good Woman.”
Before I tell you what his answer was and the conclusion of this situation, first let me explain to you why men generally don’t choose the good woman and are drawn towards the women whom are simply not good for them.
For years women have been making this same mistake and I have written about it before. Just as women are drawn to men whom are simply not worth a damn, men too gravitate towards women in the same category as a moth to a flame. Men however, are drawn for an altogether different reason.
A good woman to me is one that is defined as a woman whom possess beauty(inner/outer or both), intelligence, confidence, morals and the characteristics that show that not only will she be a great partner but a wonderful mother and partner for life.
A bad woman possess only the beauty part and its generally only the outer beauty which attract men. She may have intelligence but most wouldn’t know it. She takes pride in hiding it in order to convince men that she is vulnerable which makes men think that she is easily taken advantage of. In the end, usually the men are the ones that wind up being the victim and by the time he realises it he’s a father to a child that he is not sure is his by a woman he simply cannot stand.
Men chose bad women over good women everyday. They select women of loose morals, no values, no direction whom wear their sexuality on their sleeves. As a rule men find these women to be exciting, free spirits and are enamored with the fact that these women profess that sex is not that big of a deal. Being blinded by this fact we often overlook the fact that a woman without a conscience and no morals is nothing more than what we are, men!
A good woman is hard to find. Does that statement sound familiar? It should, women say the same thing about men. However, when men state it, what they really mean is that they are not willing to wait on a good woman. They lack the patience to pursue a woman for an extended period of time until she can determine what his real intentions are.
Unfortunately for us all in this day and age we all seek instant gratification. We want to meet you today, sleep with you tonight and then spend the next several months determining if you are really the one. Bad women are ok with this process, good women are simply not.